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It’s Okay not to be Okay

Hello everyone. I hope everyone is having a better day than me. Today is not a great day for me because I am sick and having drama going on in my life. I realized today that it is okay to not be okay. I have been crying because of my pain and it seem like I can never get a break. I know that I am going to make it but some days, all the pain and sickness does get to me because I want to stay healthy. I have to keep pushing. I can’t stop. It is not in my blood to give up. I made it this through and I am not going to stop now. Don’t ever think that is not okay to be sad, mad, or depressed. Everyone have those days. I know I have them many time through my life but I just keep it moving. Don’t let anyone steal your joy. Only you can do that.


People Telling You How They Feel

My last post was about expressing your feelings. This post I want to talk about how people receive other feelings. Some people may understand and talk you about it then some don’t understand and get mad. Like I said in the last post, the tone can affect how the person receive the message. Sometimes you have to ignore the tone and focus on the words. The tone may come from anger, not by trying to have a attitude with you. If a person tell you how they feel, before you start going off on the person, sit down and think about it for second because it can help the situation better than just getting mad. Take a moment to think about it and receive what the person saying then respond back. We have rights to have a feeling about certain things. We are human and we have feelings. We have to express those feelings so people can have a better understanding. 


Expressing Your Feelings.

Hello everyone. I hope y’all are having a lovely day. Today I want to talk about telling how you feel to people. I have a problem with that. I cannot tell how I feel without someone trying to think I am complaining, they are feeling like I am being mean, or they get mad and leave. I try to see if it’s my tone because sometimes the tone can affect the way the person receiving your message. Then I realized it was the people. I thought if I kept my feelings to myself, nobody would leave me. I keep my feelings to myself for awhile until one day I got so angry and went off on someone who didn’t even have attitude with me. I was so built up with anger of holding my feelings in for so long that I went off on a innocent person. It hurt me because I never behaved that way. I knew then that I need to express my feelings and don’t worry about how people will receive it. Don’t hold in your feelings because you fear that if you tell how you feel that the person will leave. If they do, they lost out on a great person. If they are really your true friends, they may disagree with you but they will stay in your life. 


Being Sick

Hello everybody! I hope y’all are having a wonderful day. Today I am sick. It sucks because I had to cancel my plans for today. I am not like other people who get sick. It takes a long while for me to recover because of my disease. Yes I hate that it takes forever but I don’t let it stop me from getting to where I need to go. I always put a smile on my face because it helps while I am recovering from my sickness. Smiling helps the soul. Everyone should smile. :)


Relationships

Hello everyone! Last time I talked about true friendship but today I want to talk about relationships. To be honest it is hard to find someone to see the true beauty in someone that is disabled. Most guys that I had a crush on didn’t see the true beauty. They only saw the wheelchair and my disease. It is sad because my disability does not define who I am. My personality does. I knew it was going to be hard to for me to have a guy that will understand that but I know I am going to find Mr.Right later on in life. Just because someone is disabled or different, doesn’t mean you can’t date them. Get to know them first and then make the decision. Love is love.


True Friends

Hello everyone! I hope y’all having a great day. Today I want to talk about true friends. As a disabled person, sometimes it is difficult to see who your true friends are. People can act nice towards me and then stab me in the back which sucks because I gave those people my trust. I realized I didn’t need those people. When I found my best friends, I was truly bless to have them in my life. They treat me like how I want to be treated. They don’t see the wheelchair, they only see me and I love them for that. It is a true blessing to have wonderful friends that only look at the positive of you. Make sure you hold on to those good friends because not too many good friends are out there in the world.


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Bullying

Hello everyone. I hope y’all are doing great. Today I realized how much bullying can hurt a person. I been knew bullying was bad but now and days, people are getting bullied to the point where some kids are willing to take their own lives. It is very sad because people have a reason to be on this earth. We may know or we may not never know why we are on this earth but it is for a reason. I have been bullied a couple of time in my life. Middle school years were the worst years of my life. I really wasn’t accept there to be honest. Most kids called me ugly, crippled, annoying, the b word, and other disturbing names. It hurt me to the core. I tried to commit suicide once in my life. Thank God I stopped but it was sad how hurt I was that I decided to try to commit suicide. I went to a counselor to take about the bullying. It help me a lot because now I can just ignore them and move on with life. Don’t ever judge a person just because they are different. We are all different. We should be proud of that because the world would be boring if everyone was the same. Don’t judge people. It maybe words but those words can end a person life.


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I Am Back!

Hello! I am back. I know it has been awhile since I have been on here and I want to apologize for that. Many things have happened in the past two years but now I am back!


Happy New Years!

HAPPY NEW YEARS TO EVERYBODY! Its 2012 and its going to be a good year!


LA Lakers!

Hey everyone! I hope everybody is doing good! After Christmas, I been watching my favorite basketball team the LA Lakers! I love the Lakers! I would love to meet Kobe Bryant because is my favorite basketball player! He is a good basketball and he is the only person I know that can throw a 3 pointer perfectly! Haha! I hope everyone have a goodnight!


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